Hi t,

I'm in Melbourne.

I want to be able to have children, but I'm now worried I'll take all this
weight off, have the body I've always wanted and then ruin all that hardwork
with a baby!

this is a real dilema for me, it's quite serious, the fact that I'm thinking
about adoption or at the least cesarean delivery with a tummy tuck.

It sounds silly, but if you have struggled looking fat for so many years and
you now have the chance to be the person you are on the inside, am I really
going to go and throw it all away getting pregnant?

c

Melbourne
"tracey" neil4tracey@hotmaildotcom wrote in message
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"Patrick@home" wrote in message
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hey t,

insanely strict is true, so I give myself a day or two a month off, I
don't g crazy, but I might have a slice of taost with my egg in the
morning, and I won't weigh anything, so I might end up having the right
foods just a little more of them. I figure if I go from losing 11.6kg a
month to 8kgs I can live with that as long as I'm not going backweards
and I'm not going crazy on my "days off". I figure if I don't do
something like giving myself a break I'll resent the plan and just give
up. Althouigh I have to say on the few times I have allowed myself
'normal' foods, I have felt pretty sick afterwards, and bread makes me so
tired, so if anything I think my body might be starting to appreciate the
simplicity of the way I am eating now.

I'm going to build up my exercise levels as I get lighter, god knows I
have these tiny little ankles a wrists that can't move this big bulk
around. Once it's easier to do that I'll be more motivated to move
around.

sorry to hear your friend put it back on, I have yo yo'd so many time,
this was either do or die, and I mean that literally, I would have had a
heart attack or something. I'd like to live a little longer than 35!

hiya C.

i agree, losing 8 a month is a sensational amount to lose. but even more
so, the weight loss is gonna enable you to exercise more. what a benefit.
so you have no bread at all? wow, what determinatino you have. i would
struggle big time with that.

my friend didnt put it all back on. but at least half of it i would
imagine. then she got pregnant which makes it harder too. I am 38, i
remember when i was 35 saying a similiar thing myself. getting older sure
does bring things into context dont they.

i am in perth, where are you?

t