In article , Mary M/Ohio
wrote:

Sorry if this posts twice, but it is not appearing for me -- it showed up
for a minute and then said it was no longer available on the server. So I am
trying again!


I was intrigued with the idea when I first heard it a few years ago (from
Dr. Phil, I think) -- that we remain overweight for some "payoff" reason
that is usually unconscious.

Just as Dr, Phil maintains his fascination with weight issues because
for him it's a big pay off.

--
Diva
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