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How can I force fat wife to lose weight
We have been married for 12 years and have two beautiful daughters. I
have always been the fit one, because I exercise and do not overeat. I became a little overweight 10 years ago, then lost weight 9 years ago and have been at normal weight, which has not been easy. So you cannot say that I am "naturally thin", I am "naturally fat" but I work to keep myself thin. My wife however has put on a great deal of weight through the years and looks really gross and disgusting. She weights 280 lbs and she is 5'7". I still love her but I am not attracted to her anymore. Because I love her and our kids I would prefer to somehow force her to lose weight. She is in denial of her fat issues, says she is big boned, says that weightloss does not work, says that she loves her food too much etc. My question is how can I push her towards weightloss. My strategy so far has been to bring up health issues rather than say that she is ugly. But maybe I should tell her the truth about how she looks? Dave |
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How can I force fat wife to lose weight
We have been married for 12 years and have two beautiful daughters. I
have always been the fit one, because I exercise and do not overeat. I became a little overweight 10 years ago, then lost weight 9 years ago and have been at normal weight, which has not been easy. So you cannot say that I am "naturally thin", I am "naturally fat" but I work to keep myself thin. My wife however has put on a great deal of weight through the years and looks really gross and disgusting. She weights 280 lbs and she is 5'7". I still love her but I am not attracted to her anymore. Because I love her and our kids I would prefer to somehow force her to lose weight. She is in denial of her fat issues, says she is big boned, says that weightloss does not work, says that she loves her food too much etc. My question is how can I push her towards weightloss. My strategy so far has been to bring up health issues rather than say that she is ugly. But maybe I should tell her the truth about how she looks? Dave How much do you weigh? You say your fit .. so, I'll just give it a guess. 160 or so? Divorce her ... it will be the best 160 lbs that she has ever lost. ~Kat "Rice Krispies. East meets west" Cosmo Kramer |
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Don't feed the cowardly liar -- notice troll is posting from anonymous
David Thompson wrote: We have been married for 12 years and have two beautiful daughters. I have always been the fit one, because I exercise and do not overeat. I became a little overweight 10 years ago, then lost weight 9 years ago and have been at normal weight, which has not been easy. So you cannot say that I am "naturally thin", I am "naturally fat" but I work to keep myself thin. My wife however has put on a great deal of weight through the years and looks really gross and disgusting. She weights 280 lbs and she is 5'7". I still love her but I am not attracted to her anymore. Because I love her and our kids I would prefer to somehow force her to lose weight. She is in denial of her fat issues, says she is big boned, says that weightloss does not work, says that she loves her food too much etc. My question is how can I push her towards weightloss. My strategy so far has been to bring up health issues rather than say that she is ugly. But maybe I should tell her the truth about how she looks? Dave |
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How can I force fat wife to lose weight
"Jarkat2002" wrote in message ... We have been married for 12 years and have two beautiful daughters. I have always been the fit one, because I exercise and do not overeat. I became a little overweight 10 years ago, then lost weight 9 years ago and have been at normal weight, which has not been easy. So you cannot say that I am "naturally thin", I am "naturally fat" but I work to keep myself thin. My wife however has put on a great deal of weight through the years and looks really gross and disgusting. She weights 280 lbs and she is 5'7". I still love her but I am not attracted to her anymore. Because I love her and our kids I would prefer to somehow force her to lose weight. She is in denial of her fat issues, says she is big boned, says that weightloss does not work, says that she loves her food too much etc. My question is how can I push her towards weightloss. My strategy so far has been to bring up health issues rather than say that she is ugly. But maybe I should tell her the truth about how she looks? Dave How much do you weigh? You say your fit .. so, I'll just give it a guess. 160 or so? Divorce her ... it will be the best 160 lbs that she has ever lost. ~Kat Kat - too funny! |
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How can I force fat wife to lose weight
"David Thompson" wrote in message ... We have been married for 12 years and have two beautiful daughters. I have always been the fit one, because I exercise and do not overeat. I became a little overweight 10 years ago, then lost weight 9 years ago and have been at normal weight, which has not been easy. So you cannot say that I am "naturally thin", I am "naturally fat" but I work to keep myself thin. My wife however has put on a great deal of weight through the years and looks really gross and disgusting. She weights 280 lbs and she is 5'7". I still love her but I am not attracted to her anymore. Because I love her and our kids I would prefer to somehow force her to lose weight. She is in denial of her fat issues, says she is big boned, says that weightloss does not work, says that she loves her food too much etc. My question is how can I push her towards weightloss. My strategy so far has been to bring up health issues rather than say that she is ugly. But maybe I should tell her the truth about how she looks? Dave You can't force anyone to do anything. Accept it or leave. |
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How can I force fat wife to lose weight
Someone suggested that I am somehow a bad person. Quite to the contrary. I still love my fat wife as a human being. She is a good person. However I no longer find her attractive physically. I am the exact opposite of a "shallow" person who only can love trim girls. I am a "deep" person who loves my wife despite her ugly appearance. And I do not want to leave her, I want to help her. Whoever is being judgmental about me, you are wrong! |
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How can I force fat wife to lose weight
Forgive my cynical responce but I think we are being set up for another
troll fest. A "new" person asking for help with an offbeat situation where he starts off being defensive and sets up the question to get max forms of replies. Posting to multiple newsgroups doesn't help either to ease my mind. I say we lay off this thread and not get sucked in. |
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And trim the contents! And Don't Cross Post!
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