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Atkins Diet
"Ignoramus24206" wrote in message
... Well, all diets are restrictive in some way or another. Yes, because that's the definition of a "diet". But I still believe there are other way to deal with the problem. Well, a formerly fat person needs to be on some sort of diet for the rest of his or her life, to maintain weight loss, right? Why? What's so special in a former fat person vs a normal person? The normal person will not need to be on a diet for the rest of her life, she's not eating anything special to maintain her weight. Actually, most are able to maintain their weight on whatever cooking style they feel like - including eat potato chips all day long. So, in essence, you're assuming that there is something special in that former obese person that prevents her from being "normal". She's not cured, she's merely on a life long "medication" that hides her obese condition. Exactly like someone with AIDS who is taking a tritherapy. The diet has not turned that fat obese person into a slim person, it has merely turned her into a slim obese. If you believe that, you're believing that either obesity is a 100% genetic disease or that it is somehow acquired and uncurable. That's one hypothesis. Another is that obesity is multi-factorial : genetics, cultural, psychological... If so, most factors can be changed through proper therapy. This means you should be able to *cure* obesity instead of merely fixing it, like diets do. The key question, if one loses weight on Atkins, would one then be able to switch to some other way of controlling weight, and control it. I expect the move to be cahotic. If you're after the biological only hypothesis, you're going to switch the body through a whole spectrum of "unhealthy" habits. Like, increasing carbs beyond the limit to switch from low carb to low fat. If you believe in the multi-factorial hypothesis, you're switching the whole person from one belief system (carbs are evil, fats are good) to another (carbs are good, fats are evil). I would expect such a switch to be problematic and an occasion for loss of control. if the choise is between making some adjustments to family eating, versus dying earlier and living with diseases, then I would choose making adjustments. Besides, they are not terribly difficult. Being fat is more difficult. That's because you're part of the majority. Being cut from your ethnic group and history when you're part of a minority can be very problematic. Remember that for some groups, they way they eat is *who* they are - for instance with Jews or Indians. For an Indian to go on Atkins, it would mean to go against a few thousands years of dietetic teachings that are both familly lore and religious values. For Jews, the peculiar eating habits is what has allowed them to keep their identity and specificities despite being country-less. Same for European muslims - many do not practice *except* for their eating habits. It's like telling your Roman Catholic familly that you have turned gay. Also, the USA nowadays have a rather weak cultural cuisine, which is quite a pity actually (and is maybe one of the reason why obesity is so high there). That's not so true in other parts of the world. Many countries have a strong link between cuisine and national identity. I suspect it might actually be easier for an Irish to be fat than to stop drinking Guiness altogether. At least, being fat lets you have friends and it lets you feel like a full featured Irish It might be worth wondering if they actually do have to make these sacrifices. Because there are plenty of rather slim people who do drink Guiness after all... |
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Atkins Diet
"Ignoramus24206" wrote in message
... Well, all diets are restrictive in some way or another. Yes, because that's the definition of a "diet". But I still believe there are other way to deal with the problem. Well, a formerly fat person needs to be on some sort of diet for the rest of his or her life, to maintain weight loss, right? Why? What's so special in a former fat person vs a normal person? The normal person will not need to be on a diet for the rest of her life, she's not eating anything special to maintain her weight. Actually, most are able to maintain their weight on whatever cooking style they feel like - including eat potato chips all day long. So, in essence, you're assuming that there is something special in that former obese person that prevents her from being "normal". She's not cured, she's merely on a life long "medication" that hides her obese condition. Exactly like someone with AIDS who is taking a tritherapy. The diet has not turned that fat obese person into a slim person, it has merely turned her into a slim obese. If you believe that, you're believing that either obesity is a 100% genetic disease or that it is somehow acquired and uncurable. That's one hypothesis. Another is that obesity is multi-factorial : genetics, cultural, psychological... If so, most factors can be changed through proper therapy. This means you should be able to *cure* obesity instead of merely fixing it, like diets do. The key question, if one loses weight on Atkins, would one then be able to switch to some other way of controlling weight, and control it. I expect the move to be cahotic. If you're after the biological only hypothesis, you're going to switch the body through a whole spectrum of "unhealthy" habits. Like, increasing carbs beyond the limit to switch from low carb to low fat. If you believe in the multi-factorial hypothesis, you're switching the whole person from one belief system (carbs are evil, fats are good) to another (carbs are good, fats are evil). I would expect such a switch to be problematic and an occasion for loss of control. if the choise is between making some adjustments to family eating, versus dying earlier and living with diseases, then I would choose making adjustments. Besides, they are not terribly difficult. Being fat is more difficult. That's because you're part of the majority. Being cut from your ethnic group and history when you're part of a minority can be very problematic. Remember that for some groups, they way they eat is *who* they are - for instance with Jews or Indians. For an Indian to go on Atkins, it would mean to go against a few thousands years of dietetic teachings that are both familly lore and religious values. For Jews, the peculiar eating habits is what has allowed them to keep their identity and specificities despite being country-less. Same for European muslims - many do not practice *except* for their eating habits. It's like telling your Roman Catholic familly that you have turned gay. Also, the USA nowadays have a rather weak cultural cuisine, which is quite a pity actually (and is maybe one of the reason why obesity is so high there). That's not so true in other parts of the world. Many countries have a strong link between cuisine and national identity. I suspect it might actually be easier for an Irish to be fat than to stop drinking Guiness altogether. At least, being fat lets you have friends and it lets you feel like a full featured Irish It might be worth wondering if they actually do have to make these sacrifices. Because there are plenty of rather slim people who do drink Guiness after all... |
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"Ignoramus24206" wrote in message
... Well, all diets are restrictive in some way or another. Yes, because that's the definition of a "diet". But I still believe there are other way to deal with the problem. Well, a formerly fat person needs to be on some sort of diet for the rest of his or her life, to maintain weight loss, right? Why? What's so special in a former fat person vs a normal person? The normal person will not need to be on a diet for the rest of her life, she's not eating anything special to maintain her weight. Actually, most are able to maintain their weight on whatever cooking style they feel like - including eat potato chips all day long. So, in essence, you're assuming that there is something special in that former obese person that prevents her from being "normal". She's not cured, she's merely on a life long "medication" that hides her obese condition. Exactly like someone with AIDS who is taking a tritherapy. The diet has not turned that fat obese person into a slim person, it has merely turned her into a slim obese. If you believe that, you're believing that either obesity is a 100% genetic disease or that it is somehow acquired and uncurable. That's one hypothesis. Another is that obesity is multi-factorial : genetics, cultural, psychological... If so, most factors can be changed through proper therapy. This means you should be able to *cure* obesity instead of merely fixing it, like diets do. The key question, if one loses weight on Atkins, would one then be able to switch to some other way of controlling weight, and control it. I expect the move to be cahotic. If you're after the biological only hypothesis, you're going to switch the body through a whole spectrum of "unhealthy" habits. Like, increasing carbs beyond the limit to switch from low carb to low fat. If you believe in the multi-factorial hypothesis, you're switching the whole person from one belief system (carbs are evil, fats are good) to another (carbs are good, fats are evil). I would expect such a switch to be problematic and an occasion for loss of control. if the choise is between making some adjustments to family eating, versus dying earlier and living with diseases, then I would choose making adjustments. Besides, they are not terribly difficult. Being fat is more difficult. That's because you're part of the majority. Being cut from your ethnic group and history when you're part of a minority can be very problematic. Remember that for some groups, they way they eat is *who* they are - for instance with Jews or Indians. For an Indian to go on Atkins, it would mean to go against a few thousands years of dietetic teachings that are both familly lore and religious values. For Jews, the peculiar eating habits is what has allowed them to keep their identity and specificities despite being country-less. Same for European muslims - many do not practice *except* for their eating habits. It's like telling your Roman Catholic familly that you have turned gay. Also, the USA nowadays have a rather weak cultural cuisine, which is quite a pity actually (and is maybe one of the reason why obesity is so high there). That's not so true in other parts of the world. Many countries have a strong link between cuisine and national identity. I suspect it might actually be easier for an Irish to be fat than to stop drinking Guiness altogether. At least, being fat lets you have friends and it lets you feel like a full featured Irish It might be worth wondering if they actually do have to make these sacrifices. Because there are plenty of rather slim people who do drink Guiness after all... |
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Lictor wrote:
If you ask an Indian or Japanese never to eat rice again, you're making his familly life difficult. However, if said Indian or Japanese person went to their doctor, and they discovered (as an extreme hypothetical example), a deadly allergy to rice, said person would say "No problem!" I used to be on a real low carb diet, but now I eat more variety in my diet, and yes, I will eat something with my friends. The reason I feel comfortable doing so, is because during times when for one reason or another I said "no", they respected that. While food is a part of North American culture, it is not a means of communication grin, people can say out loud, in verbal terms, that for health reasons they are not eating certain ingredient at this time, and if people are true friends they'll go "Hey no problem, I'm just glad to have you here anyway". |
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Lictor wrote:
If you ask an Indian or Japanese never to eat rice again, you're making his familly life difficult. However, if said Indian or Japanese person went to their doctor, and they discovered (as an extreme hypothetical example), a deadly allergy to rice, said person would say "No problem!" I used to be on a real low carb diet, but now I eat more variety in my diet, and yes, I will eat something with my friends. The reason I feel comfortable doing so, is because during times when for one reason or another I said "no", they respected that. While food is a part of North American culture, it is not a means of communication grin, people can say out loud, in verbal terms, that for health reasons they are not eating certain ingredient at this time, and if people are true friends they'll go "Hey no problem, I'm just glad to have you here anyway". |
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Lictor wrote:
If you ask an Indian or Japanese never to eat rice again, you're making his familly life difficult. However, if said Indian or Japanese person went to their doctor, and they discovered (as an extreme hypothetical example), a deadly allergy to rice, said person would say "No problem!" I used to be on a real low carb diet, but now I eat more variety in my diet, and yes, I will eat something with my friends. The reason I feel comfortable doing so, is because during times when for one reason or another I said "no", they respected that. While food is a part of North American culture, it is not a means of communication grin, people can say out loud, in verbal terms, that for health reasons they are not eating certain ingredient at this time, and if people are true friends they'll go "Hey no problem, I'm just glad to have you here anyway". |
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Lictor wrote:
That's because you're part of the majority. Being cut from your ethnic group and history when you're part of a minority can be very problematic. Rant mode on... There is a lot more to ethnicity than food. I get so sick of the "Waah waah waah all my friends won't like me, nobody will understaaaaand, there's so much peeeeeeer pressure!" So, a person growing up and standing up for their own body's personal well being offends someone.... well, to that I answer, tough! How badly does this person want me around say, 5 years from now... 20 years from now. True and honest caring comes from people NOTICING AND OBSERVING what other people need and respecting it! A self absorbed person will say "What do you MEAN, you're not eating my grandmother's famous recipe for peanutbutter peach strawberry ratatatah with rice? How rude of YOU to turn it down! Don't you know she gave me that recipe on her DEATHBED???" When people grow up and allow people to do the best good for themselves, without the manipulative guilt tripping, then I will perceive them as real and true friends and THEN wanting to be "part of their culture" will be important to me. If people are willing to compromise someone else's HEALTH, otherwise have them be cut off from "culture", then they're not real friends. They're people held prisoner by a stupid tradition. Rant off.... |
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Lictor wrote:
That's because you're part of the majority. Being cut from your ethnic group and history when you're part of a minority can be very problematic. Rant mode on... There is a lot more to ethnicity than food. I get so sick of the "Waah waah waah all my friends won't like me, nobody will understaaaaand, there's so much peeeeeeer pressure!" So, a person growing up and standing up for their own body's personal well being offends someone.... well, to that I answer, tough! How badly does this person want me around say, 5 years from now... 20 years from now. True and honest caring comes from people NOTICING AND OBSERVING what other people need and respecting it! A self absorbed person will say "What do you MEAN, you're not eating my grandmother's famous recipe for peanutbutter peach strawberry ratatatah with rice? How rude of YOU to turn it down! Don't you know she gave me that recipe on her DEATHBED???" When people grow up and allow people to do the best good for themselves, without the manipulative guilt tripping, then I will perceive them as real and true friends and THEN wanting to be "part of their culture" will be important to me. If people are willing to compromise someone else's HEALTH, otherwise have them be cut off from "culture", then they're not real friends. They're people held prisoner by a stupid tradition. Rant off.... |
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Lictor wrote:
That's because you're part of the majority. Being cut from your ethnic group and history when you're part of a minority can be very problematic. Rant mode on... There is a lot more to ethnicity than food. I get so sick of the "Waah waah waah all my friends won't like me, nobody will understaaaaand, there's so much peeeeeeer pressure!" So, a person growing up and standing up for their own body's personal well being offends someone.... well, to that I answer, tough! How badly does this person want me around say, 5 years from now... 20 years from now. True and honest caring comes from people NOTICING AND OBSERVING what other people need and respecting it! A self absorbed person will say "What do you MEAN, you're not eating my grandmother's famous recipe for peanutbutter peach strawberry ratatatah with rice? How rude of YOU to turn it down! Don't you know she gave me that recipe on her DEATHBED???" When people grow up and allow people to do the best good for themselves, without the manipulative guilt tripping, then I will perceive them as real and true friends and THEN wanting to be "part of their culture" will be important to me. If people are willing to compromise someone else's HEALTH, otherwise have them be cut off from "culture", then they're not real friends. They're people held prisoner by a stupid tradition. Rant off.... |
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"Crafting Mom" wrote in message
... However, if said Indian or Japanese person went to their doctor, and they discovered (as an extreme hypothetical example), a deadly allergy to rice, said person would say "No problem!" Maybe, or maybe not... Remind me of how many diabetics actually manage to change their lifestyles? And because he *must* make that change doesn't mean the change will be without a cost. I don't know about the USA, but here it's not uncommon to have people on anti-cholesterol diet becoming depressive after a while. It's also not so rare for people with a strict diet to become overweight, especially when that diet was forced on them as a kid, partly because of the pain of being ostracized in their own familly (you know, having your special meal, not being able to eat with the other kids...). I used to be on a real low carb diet, but now I eat more variety in my diet, and yes, I will eat something with my friends. The reason I feel comfortable doing so, is because during times when for one reason or another I said "no", they respected that. But you live in a country where low carb is actually becoming the norm! So, you are actually moving from one norm (industrialized version of the traditionnal American diet) to another norm (low carb frenzy). You're also in a country where the traditionnal cuisine has been destroyed by years of industrial food and general surgeon good advices. People can't blame you for not following traditions where there are not much traditions left to follow, can they? While food is a part of North American culture, it is not a means of communication grin, people can say out loud, in verbal terms, that for health reasons they are not eating certain ingredient at this time, and if people are true friends they'll go "Hey no problem, I'm just glad to have you here anyway". What people say and what they think and what you think they think are different things And what you feel about it is yet another issue. I mean, even as someone who is on the process of losing weight, when I see the a relative eat only a starter and nothing else at a restaurant, my first thought is that she has no life (well, she *actually* has no life). Many people will actually think that here, if you can't enjoy food, you're obviously not enjoying life. I mean, if the goal of a gathering of friends is to enjoy some food together, why invite you and your weird eating habits? |
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