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In article t, Cathe
B wrote: I love brownies. They are my all time favorite torture my scale food... how do you all deal with folks who are "helping" by bringing you food who include "Just one treat, I know you'd want it". I've been wrapping up treats I've been given and hand them to the little girl next door, but her mom is worried about snacking on them herself, so we're both scratching our heads for options. We came up with bringing the treat bags to the people who sit on the corners in our neighborhood with the "homeless need help" signs. Any other ideas? C Hi Cathe! People show their affection and regard through food--I know--it's one of my bad habits. And while they may not be trying to subvert your WOE, it sometimes feels that way--especially times when you don't have the will to resist. We went through this type of thing in April when my dad passed away--everybody from three towns showed up with a casserole or goody or platter of something, and my mother's department actually catered the reception after the funeral. The food was never ending--I think I still have stuff in the freezer. Perhaps your best course would be to ask those who are helping you with the cooking, etc. to replace brownies and cakes and such with healthier food items, like fresh fruit and vegies. It would sure be easier for them to show up with a pint of strawberries than it would be to bake a dozen cookies, no? Anyway, good luck with your dilema--I know you don't want to appear ungrateful, and it's hard to refuse someone's expression of caring, even if just isn't what you need right now. Amy |
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In article t, Cathe
B wrote: I love brownies. They are my all time favorite torture my scale food... how do you all deal with folks who are "helping" by bringing you food who include "Just one treat, I know you'd want it". I've been wrapping up treats I've been given and hand them to the little girl next door, but her mom is worried about snacking on them herself, so we're both scratching our heads for options. We came up with bringing the treat bags to the people who sit on the corners in our neighborhood with the "homeless need help" signs. Any other ideas? C Hi Cathe! People show their affection and regard through food--I know--it's one of my bad habits. And while they may not be trying to subvert your WOE, it sometimes feels that way--especially times when you don't have the will to resist. We went through this type of thing in April when my dad passed away--everybody from three towns showed up with a casserole or goody or platter of something, and my mother's department actually catered the reception after the funeral. The food was never ending--I think I still have stuff in the freezer. Perhaps your best course would be to ask those who are helping you with the cooking, etc. to replace brownies and cakes and such with healthier food items, like fresh fruit and vegies. It would sure be easier for them to show up with a pint of strawberries than it would be to bake a dozen cookies, no? Anyway, good luck with your dilema--I know you don't want to appear ungrateful, and it's hard to refuse someone's expression of caring, even if just isn't what you need right now. Amy |
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wrote: Dally wrote: This is the crux of what I don't know how to do. You've got to remember that food is religion: people deeply believe the stuff they believe about food. Asking someone to not bring you brownies when they're trying to nuture your soul might be akin to asking your priest to please drop by with some porn magazines because you're tired of Good Housekeeping. :-) A house guest brought home food from several events she attended on the weekend and we got sick from tiny tastes. Next time it goes right in the trash a la Barbara's suggestion. -- Diva ****** There is no substitute for the right food |
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In article , PL
wrote: Dally wrote: This is the crux of what I don't know how to do. You've got to remember that food is religion: people deeply believe the stuff they believe about food. Asking someone to not bring you brownies when they're trying to nuture your soul might be akin to asking your priest to please drop by with some porn magazines because you're tired of Good Housekeeping. :-) A house guest brought home food from several events she attended on the weekend and we got sick from tiny tastes. Next time it goes right in the trash a la Barbara's suggestion. -- Diva ****** There is no substitute for the right food |
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A Ross wrote:
Hi Cathe! People show their affection and regard through food--I know--it's one of my bad habits. And while they may not be trying to subvert your WOE, it sometimes feels that way--especially times when you don't have the will to resist. We went through this type of thing in April when my dad passed away--everybody from three towns showed up with a casserole or goody or platter of something, and my mother's department actually catered the reception after the funeral. The food was never ending--I think I still have stuff in the freezer. Perhaps your best course would be to ask those who are helping you with the cooking, etc. to replace brownies and cakes and such with healthier food items, like fresh fruit and vegies. It would sure be easier for them to show up with a pint of strawberries than it would be to bake a dozen cookies, no? Anyway, good luck with your dilema--I know you don't want to appear ungrateful, and it's hard to refuse someone's expression of caring, even if just isn't what you need right now. Amy Thanks Amy...yup, my old italian background makes an etiquette issue out of it..but thanks I like your idea. |
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A Ross wrote:
Hi Cathe! People show their affection and regard through food--I know--it's one of my bad habits. And while they may not be trying to subvert your WOE, it sometimes feels that way--especially times when you don't have the will to resist. We went through this type of thing in April when my dad passed away--everybody from three towns showed up with a casserole or goody or platter of something, and my mother's department actually catered the reception after the funeral. The food was never ending--I think I still have stuff in the freezer. Perhaps your best course would be to ask those who are helping you with the cooking, etc. to replace brownies and cakes and such with healthier food items, like fresh fruit and vegies. It would sure be easier for them to show up with a pint of strawberries than it would be to bake a dozen cookies, no? Anyway, good luck with your dilema--I know you don't want to appear ungrateful, and it's hard to refuse someone's expression of caring, even if just isn't what you need right now. Amy Thanks Amy...yup, my old italian background makes an etiquette issue out of it..but thanks I like your idea. |
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"Cathe B" wrote in message k.net... Dally wrote: I don't think I caught what your disability is: in fact, I don't recall what your weight situation is, either. I'll google later when I have time, but if you don't mind filling me in I'd appreciate it! I'm mostly wondering if this is a temporary situation or major adjustments you're making from here on out. I'd handle the two scenarios differently. Dally I have a joint disorder which causes me to dislocate just about every joint at least once a week. My hands, knees, and shoulders pop out more than anything. I'm sometimes in a wheelchair, and sometimes using a cane, and I'm currently being fitted for braces for my major joints. I went from being a bouncy all over the place gal, to a couch potato under protest. C Oh my....is in painful? Is there anything they can do for you? Martha |
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"Cathe B" wrote in message k.net... Dally wrote: I don't think I caught what your disability is: in fact, I don't recall what your weight situation is, either. I'll google later when I have time, but if you don't mind filling me in I'd appreciate it! I'm mostly wondering if this is a temporary situation or major adjustments you're making from here on out. I'd handle the two scenarios differently. Dally I have a joint disorder which causes me to dislocate just about every joint at least once a week. My hands, knees, and shoulders pop out more than anything. I'm sometimes in a wheelchair, and sometimes using a cane, and I'm currently being fitted for braces for my major joints. I went from being a bouncy all over the place gal, to a couch potato under protest. C Oh my....is in painful? Is there anything they can do for you? Martha |
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