PING Tom

I am putting this in a new thread because my stupid server will NOT post it,
and I didn't want you to think I am still upset in any way. (Also because
I'm too stubborn to give up and not insist that all my posts go through!)

Lynne, I hope you and all the other people with similar
problems find a way
to get themsselves out of the quagmire. I myself will refrain
from further
discussions that I can not fully understand because of not
living this kind
of life. I can still empathize with all of you and your problems
despite my
limmited view on the matter. I see that Sunshyne and Damsel are
possibly
reconciling in a newer thread. Maybe through all the
discussions here, they
have come to realize that they and others were only trying to
help with a
complicated problem that has no clear answers. I know it's
helped me to
better understand the issue.
Tom

Fair enough-shall we consider ourselves kissed and made up now? ;-))

Lynne A

Hi Lynne. Some people weren't really reading the posts as they were
intended. They got hung up on some terms I used to describe the situation.
No intention was made to minimize the seriousness of the situation. It seems
sometimes that if a word is spelled wrong, proper paragraphing neglected, or
hurtful terms(to some) used, then the helpful part of the message is lost. I
noticed that Rosie, who was on top of me the most, ended up getting flamed
herself for the same sort of errors. It would be difficult to write little
side notes giving definitions of every word or what is meant by the concept
stated. Points of view differ, even when people agree in general. No harm
done. Have a good day all.
Tom
"Lynne A" wrote in message
...
I am putting this in a new thread because my stupid server will NOT post
it,
and I didn't want you to think I am still upset in any way. (Also because
I'm too stubborn to give up and not insist that all my posts go through!)

Lynne, I hope you and all the other people with similar
problems find a way
to get themsselves out of the quagmire. I myself will refrain
from further
discussions that I can not fully understand because of not
living this kind
of life. I can still empathize with all of you and your
problems
despite my
limmited view on the matter. I see that Sunshyne and Damsel
are
possibly
reconciling in a newer thread. Maybe through all the
discussions here, they
have come to realize that they and others were only trying to
help with a
complicated problem that has no clear answers. I know it's
helped me to
better understand the issue.
Tom

Fair enough-shall we consider ourselves kissed and made up now? ;-))

Lynne A