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Apology to Sunshyne
I was being sarcastic, Roger. I'm the last person in the world who needs
drama -- Sheli "Roger Zoul" wrote in message ... guitarprincess wrote: :: Wow, I missed what happened. I miss ALL the good stuff! Why the hell :: is that. This is not good stuff. It's very disappointing. If you want drama, go watch TV. :: :: -- :: Sheli :: :: "Damsel in dis Dress" wrote in :: message ... ::: I'm sorry, Sunshyne, for what I did to you last night. I was ::: feeling emotionally fragile, and Ignoramous' posts were affecting ::: me badly. Getting up this morning, I'm discovering that I'd have to ::: do a lot more killfiling to erase the jerk from my life, so I've ::: come up with another way of dealing with it. ::: ::: I'm very sorry if I caused you unnecessary pain. ::: ::: {{{{{Sunshyne}}}}} ::: ::: Carol ::: -- ::: Fasting BG 143 ::: 227/219.5/150 (official weigh-in day: Thursday) ::: June Challenge Goal: 213 ::: Bernstein Diabetes Solution 5/25/2004 ::: Diabetes Dx 5/15/2001 ::: Diet, Exercise, Oral Medication |
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Apology to Sunshyne
I was being sarcastic, Roger. I'm the last person in the world who needs
drama No I'M the last person in the world who needs drama! ROFL!! ~Carol Ann 176/176/130 |
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Apology to Sunshyne
In article ,
"rosie read and post" wrote: I was diagnosed with depression a few years back, and my : doctor wanted to put me on drugs, and I tried them but I had a bad : reaction. Maybe some people think I should have tried a different drug, : but I realized that I was depressed for a damn good reason, so I got off my : butt and got a job and made friends and got a life, and lo and behold I : wasn't depressed anymore. : : you are SO LUCKY to have been able to treat your depression that easily................and YES, i said easily. It didn't feel easy at the time. I'd been unemployed for two years, it was scary to get back out there. It was scary to start socializing again too, the first 10 times or so I made it less than an hour before I had to go back home. -- Michelle Levin http://www.mindspring.com/~lunachick I have only 3 flaws. My first flaw is thinking that I only have 3 flaws. |
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Apology to Sunshyne
In article , Sunshyne wrote:
I'm sorry, Sunshyne, for what I did to you last night. Please disregard the above. I just had the chance to read your reply to my previous post. It would not be healthy for me to continue reading your posts, afterall. I hope no one starts making noises like you're stuck with any of your problems forever when you know there are ways to improve whatever the condition is. You'd know how I feel now, and I really don't want you to ever feel that way. Hmm. Lets practice bluntness. I don't give a ****. You are sorry one minute, then you are not. Is it the bipolar kicking in? Keep me in killfile. Go **** yourself. you were not "supportive enough" for that damsel... i I am not sure what exactly you are trying to say Ig. Please go into more detail. So that I can understand. It feels like the air is thick in here today. Like people waiting for any more responses from me or from Damsel. I am ticked off that a thread was started with my name in it, apologizing, then the apology was taken back. I would really love to not have such drama. I did not realize that I had to act a certain way, be supportive in a certain way, hang with certain friends or people in order to recieve support and friendship in return. Thats not my idea of friendship. Friendship is honoring and accepting the other for what they are. Even if opinions differ. Even if personality traits are different. I do appreciate others keeping a neurtral ground. Thank you. -Be gentle with yourselves, for you are in a process; you are changing, growing, unfolding, and becoming, in manifested form, that which you already are in essence.- ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Atkins since 1/17/04 267/209/135 CCLL-40 |
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Apology to Sunshyne
"Roger Zoul" wrote in message
... This is not good stuff. It's very disappointing. If you want drama, go watch TV. That was not drama, it was comedy. HTH |
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Apology to Sunshyne
Damsel in dis Dress wrote:
On Sat, 19 Jun 2004 14:35:57 -0500, Damsel in dis Dress wrote: I'm sorry, Sunshyne, for what I did to you last night. Please disregard the above. I just had the chance to read your reply to my previous post. It would not be healthy for me to continue reading your posts, afterall. I hope no one starts making noises like you're stuck with any of your problems forever when you know there are ways to improve whatever the condition is. You'd know how I feel now, and I really don't want you to ever feel that way. Damsel, I don't know whether I'm on your killfile list, just in case you're still reading this thread: I think S and I were making comments on how you can IMPROVE your conditions *EVEN IF* you were stuck with the problems forever. OK, may be they weren't very clear about that "EVEN IF", may be they're a bit pessimistic, but I don't think either of them mean it badly. If you think about your disorder as a scenario/action tree, it goes like this: (a) (1) Disorder (2) Get treatment (3) Cured (b) (1) Disorder (2) Get treatment (3) Not cured (4) Manage the problem (c) (1) Disorder (2) Get treatment (3) Not cured (4) Give up entirely (d) (1) Disorder (2) Do not get treatment (3) Cured magically (e) (1) Disorder (2) Do not get treatment (3) Not cured (4) Manage the problem (f) (1) Disorder (2) Do not get treatment (3) Not cured (4) Give up entirely What S and I says, shall you find yourself at the Not Cured situation, you can choose options (b) or (e) instead of (c) or (f). Damsel I hope that you'd view their posts as offering you a backup plan, not as a discouragement to seek help. You might not be ready for their backup plan and find their words offensive but now that they've offered it, it's possibly good to keep it logged somewhere, just in case. Ada |
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Apology to Sunshyne
"so I got off my butt and got a job and made friends and got a life, and lo
and behold I wasn't depressed anymore." "It didn't feel easy at the time" Michelle Levin --------------------------------------------------------------------- Excellent post Michelle. Happy pills and shoulders to cry on can only take a person so far. The answer to a person's problems are within themselves. Crutches are only temporary tools until a solution is found. Problems have a way of festering until they become a crisis, and then options become more limited. When a different problem arises, it doesn't just add, it compounds to the existing one(s). With too many problems, a person becomes paralyzed by constantly having to monitor and fix the patches. Unfortunately, a person in this kind of predicament can't see the answers through the haze. Anybody trying to help this person is viewed as an attacker or could be blamed for the problem itself, like Ig and Sunshyne. Damsel, you can also add me to your killfile filter crutch. Tom 210/180/180 |
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Apology to Sunshyne
Sunshyne wrote:
I am not sure what exactly you are trying to say Ig. Please go into more detail. So that I can understand. Ignoramus wrote: She wants a little bit too much from people, compared to how much she is giving and how much is "reasonable"... It feels like the air is thick in here today. Like people waiting for any more responses from me or from Damsel. I am ticked off that a thread was started with my name in it, apologizing, then the apology was taken back. I would really love to not have such drama. I did not realize that I had to act a certain way, be supportive in a certain way, hang with certain friends or people in order to recieve support and friendship in return. Thats not my idea of friendship. Friendship is honoring and accepting the other for what they are. Even if opinions differ. Even if personality traits are different. I do appreciate others keeping a neurtral ground. Thank you. Some things, like these dramas, come with territory. Yes they do, the territory thing.. I feel like shutting down. I am putting up a brick wall right now. I don't know what else to say, or what else to do. What this has all become. Its a reminder of something that happened on another group, couple years ago. Its like a role reversal though. Me-in Damsels shoes. I know what she if feeling, I know her mind is scattered in different directions. I have felt the emotional pain she is feeling right now. There is nothing else I can do, she has to face reality herself. She has to do her own inner work, lead her own life. |
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Apology to Sunshyne
This is not good stuff. It's very disappointing. If you want drama, go
watch TV. In ways it is good stuff. I believe there are lessons all of us can learn. Each in our own ways. Whats so disappointing? |
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