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Hash: SHA1 Fat acceptance is another name for feederism. If anyone is confused about the true meaning of fat acceptance, here it is, unbridled gluttony no matter the consequences to yourself or society. Official Fat Acceptance FAQ --------------------------- WHAT IS FEEDERISM? Essentially I want to be fat. Fatter than I already am. I want to deliberately overeat until my body feels compelled to convert the extra calories I have consumed into fat thus making me bigger, softer, rounder. I want to watch the reading on the scales go up and up as I stuff myself to= higher weights. There is another main aspect to this fetish/lifestyle/whatever you wish to call it, in that the gaining process often involves a feeder/encourager. My= feeders are/have been men who are blessed with an intense sexual attraction= to fat women and who find nothing more erotic than the idea of a woman giving into her desire for food to the extent that she gets fatter and fatter.=20 YOU'RE FAT AND YOU WANT TO GAIN? ARE YOU MAD? To the former query, I reply in the affirmative. To the latter, well, that=92s not something I care to speculate upon as I could hardly be regard= ed as objective, though I do prefer the old adage that it=92s everyone else whose insane.=20 BUT WHAT ABOUT YOUR HEALTH? Ask me that when you=92ve stopped drinking/smoking/getting stressed/biting your nails/crossing the street/watching daytime TV. What? You don=92t do an= y of those things? Have you checked for a pulse lately?=20 ARE THERE OTHER PEOPLE WHO THINK LIKE THIS? Yep. You can find lots of them at Dimensions Magazine=92s Weight Board.=20 WHAT'S THE PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND FEEDERISM? I=92ve no idea as to what the official line is. There probably isn=92t one unless some psychologist has investigated this concept and spouted some Freudianesque clap-trap about it, so I=92ll offer my own sketchy, ineloquen= t version instead I can easily understand the attractiveness of fatness in terms of primitive= survival-instinct motives. Like all animals, we humans [generally] have a fixation with survival and breeding; with the search for a mate. Basically we=92re after someone with genes worthy enough to combine with our own in offspring. Now somewhere deep in our psychological programming is the prehistoric acknowledgement that a bountiful figure is the reflection of a body that has not merely survived, but has flourished; a body therefore suited to procreation. Deep down, fat is associated with fertility, and fertility with attractiveness. Of course, exactly how fat a man likes his woman to be is a matter of personal taste. Some prefer just a few soft curves and others want acres of= flesh but, in spite of what the media would have us believe, it=92s only a small minority of men who truly have a preference for skinny women that is not based on the fear of being seen with socially unacceptable dates. For me the psychological attraction of feederism comes from two main sources. Firstly, and quite simply, I find that getting fatter makes my body more aesthetically and ergonomically pleasing, both for myself and my lover. Secondly, there is a distinct, and wildly appealing element of loosing control involved giving into my desire for more food in spite of the fact that I=92ve already stuffed myself. Of course, with the backdrop o= f Western society=92s current obsession with thinness, this indulgence has ev= en greater connotations of hedonism and is all the more potent. Ah, perceived immorality! Can=92t beat it.=20 WHAT DO YOU WEIGH? WHAT ARE YOUR STATISTICS? I'm 5'4" tall and am currently around the 352lbs mark... possibly a little more. My measurements are... =20 Bust - 59.5=20 Waist - 52.5"=20 Upper thigh - 35.5"=20 Upper arm - 20"=20 Hips & belly - 66.5" or 71" when seated=20 HOW FAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE? To be honest, I=92m not entirely certain. It=92s something that I intend to= play by ear, so I neither have a final target nor a limit. The next milepost for me will be 400lbs, which I hope to reach around mid-2002 After= that, who knows?=20 DO YOU WANT TO BECOME IMMOBILE? I don=92t think that anyone actually wants to be immobilised. It=92s certai= nly an extremely potent fantasy for many feedees and feeders, but I presume that the reality of immobility is rather a different matter. Ideally I would like to retain as much mobility as possible for as long as possible, and I continue to stretch and undertake moderate exercise to assist me in this aim. However, I whilst realising that this is rather controversial would not be entirely opposed to the idea of being so fat that I could not walk. Maybe my views will change when I approach such a state, but for the moment= it=92s something of a non-issue. Neither an aim nor a fear.=20 WHAT ARE YOUR FAVOURITE ACTIVITIES TO PARTICIPATE IN WITH A FEEDER? Oooh, so many things... Some of them I=92ve done. Some are ideas I=92d like= to try out. Please be warned that you might find some of this stuff offensive:= =20 Be told how fat already I am and how fat my feeder plans on making me. =20 Sit on my feeder=92s lap whilst I eat. =20 Get tied up, blindfolded and "force"-fed. =20 Have a lover feed me to the point that it hurts and then insist on me eating some more until I beg for mercy. =20 Have my feeder masturbate whilst they watch me eat (the idea being that they=92re so turned on that they can=92t stop themselves). =20 Have my full belly massaged when I=92ve eaten too much. =20 .. and all the straight stuff that the "normal" people do!=20 HAVE YOU EVER HAD ANY BAD EXPERIENCES WITH A FEEDER? Here we go. What you really mean is, Aren=92t all feeders just evil people who just want to fatten up someone until they get bored of it and then abandon their feedee in favour of someone else? My, my. The world must be a= terrifying place for you if you judge everything by it=92s most negative extreme! I bet you think that every BSDM dom is a lurking Patrick Bateman [American Psycho Brett Easton-Ellis]. Anyway, try to employ a little objectivity for a few minutes and I shall attempt to reflect the good and the bad aspects feederism in a sensible light. Some Arguments Against Feederism I once heard someone say that feeding was different from all other fetish-type relationships in that there had to be a point at which the relationship ground to a halt for one of three main reasons: Feeder leaves because feedee can no longer gain any more weight.=20 Feedee gets ill/dies and feeder moves on.=20 Feedee terminates the relationship upon realising feeder=92s motives.=20 Problems I Have With Such Arguments Assumes that feederism is the only basis for a feeder to seek a relationship and that continuing weight gain is the only thing that makes the feeder stay with the partner.=20 Assumes that a feeder in a relationship will always seek to fatten their partner with no regard to the physical or emotional health of the feedee.=20 Assumes that all feeder/feedee relationships always involve huge amounts of= weight-gain.=20 Such premises seem to be based around the notion that feeders are some sort= of monsters; absorbed by nothing other than obtaining their sexual kicks, regardless of the cost! Now, I=92m not saying that there aren=92t feeders i= n the world who completely disregard the physical and emotional health of their feedees for their weight-gain fix, but this behaviour does not arise because they are feeders. It arises because they=92re emotionally immature *******s who would manage to screw up their partner in most of their entanglements, regardless of whether feederism was involved or not. Of course, remaining so steadfastly true to its unobjective, sensationalist= nature, the world at large tends to hear reports of such abuse and proceeds= to label all feeders as fiends and all feedees as their helpless, emotionally-blackmailed victims... Ah, the sweet smell of stereotyping. LV Lady Veteran - ----------------------------------- "I rode a tank and held a general's rank when the blitzkrieg raged and the bodies stank..." - -Rolling Stones, Sympathy for the Devil - ------------------------------------------------ People who use anonymous remailers and=20 ridicule fat people are doing the world a great service. - --------------------------------------------- "To Do Is To Be" Socrates "To Be Is To Do" Plato "Do Be Do Be Do" Sinatra - ------------------------------- -----BEGIN PGP SIGNATURE----- Version: PGP 8.0 - not licensed for commercial use: www.pgp.com iQA/AwUBQIEinekoPZAZfLgsEQL/MACePnRLZIvi4sTcKV+hwNEDC29Qtl8AoP4P 9XjRPdUv1PTjkC+zFel4MfQW =3DbiVB -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- |
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Whatever floats your boat. Some people **** goats too. Doesn't mean it isnt
disgusting. "Ms.Sanchez" wrote in message ... -----BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE----- Hash: SHA1 Fat acceptance is another name for feederism. If anyone is confused about the true meaning of fat acceptance, here it is, unbridled gluttony no matter the consequences to yourself or society. Official Fat Acceptance FAQ --------------------------- WHAT IS FEEDERISM? Essentially I want to be fat. Fatter than I already am. I want to deliberately overeat until my body feels compelled to convert the extra calories I have consumed into fat thus making me bigger, softer, rounder. I want to watch the reading on the scales go up and up as I stuff myself to higher weights. There is another main aspect to this fetish/lifestyle/whatever you wish to call it, in that the gaining process often involves a feeder/encourager. My feeders are/have been men who are blessed with an intense sexual attraction to fat women and who find nothing more erotic than the idea of a woman giving into her desire for food to the extent that she gets fatter and fatter. YOU'RE FAT AND YOU WANT TO GAIN? ARE YOU MAD? To the former query, I reply in the affirmative. To the latter, well, that's not something I care to speculate upon as I could hardly be regarded as objective, though I do prefer the old adage that it's everyone else whose insane. BUT WHAT ABOUT YOUR HEALTH? Ask me that when you've stopped drinking/smoking/getting stressed/biting your nails/crossing the street/watching daytime TV. What? You don't do any of those things? Have you checked for a pulse lately? ARE THERE OTHER PEOPLE WHO THINK LIKE THIS? Yep. You can find lots of them at Dimensions Magazine's Weight Board. WHAT'S THE PSYCHOLOGY BEHIND FEEDERISM? I've no idea as to what the official line is. There probably isn't one unless some psychologist has investigated this concept and spouted some Freudianesque clap-trap about it, so I'll offer my own sketchy, ineloquent version instead I can easily understand the attractiveness of fatness in terms of primitive survival-instinct motives. Like all animals, we humans [generally] have a fixation with survival and breeding; with the search for a mate. Basically we're after someone with genes worthy enough to combine with our own in offspring. Now somewhere deep in our psychological programming is the prehistoric acknowledgement that a bountiful figure is the reflection of a body that has not merely survived, but has flourished; a body therefore suited to procreation. Deep down, fat is associated with fertility, and fertility with attractiveness. Of course, exactly how fat a man likes his woman to be is a matter of personal taste. Some prefer just a few soft curves and others want acres of flesh but, in spite of what the media would have us believe, it's only a small minority of men who truly have a preference for skinny women that is not based on the fear of being seen with socially unacceptable dates. For me the psychological attraction of feederism comes from two main sources. Firstly, and quite simply, I find that getting fatter makes my body more aesthetically and ergonomically pleasing, both for myself and my lover. Secondly, there is a distinct, and wildly appealing element of loosing control involved giving into my desire for more food in spite of the fact that I've already stuffed myself. Of course, with the backdrop of Western society's current obsession with thinness, this indulgence has even greater connotations of hedonism and is all the more potent. Ah, perceived immorality! Can't beat it. WHAT DO YOU WEIGH? WHAT ARE YOUR STATISTICS? I'm 5'4" tall and am currently around the 352lbs mark... possibly a little more. My measurements are... Bust - 59.5 Waist - 52.5" Upper thigh - 35.5" Upper arm - 20" Hips & belly - 66.5" or 71" when seated HOW FAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO BE? To be honest, I'm not entirely certain. It's something that I intend to play by ear, so I neither have a final target nor a limit. The next milepost for me will be 400lbs, which I hope to reach around mid-2002 After that, who knows? DO YOU WANT TO BECOME IMMOBILE? I don't think that anyone actually wants to be immobilised. It's certainly an extremely potent fantasy for many feedees and feeders, but I presume that the reality of immobility is rather a different matter. Ideally I would like to retain as much mobility as possible for as long as possible, and I continue to stretch and undertake moderate exercise to assist me in this aim. However, I whilst realising that this is rather controversial would not be entirely opposed to the idea of being so fat that I could not walk. Maybe my views will change when I approach such a state, but for the moment it's something of a non-issue. Neither an aim nor a fear. WHAT ARE YOUR FAVOURITE ACTIVITIES TO PARTICIPATE IN WITH A FEEDER? Oooh, so many things... Some of them I've done. Some are ideas I'd like to try out. Please be warned that you might find some of this stuff offensive: Be told how fat already I am and how fat my feeder plans on making me. Sit on my feeder's lap whilst I eat. Get tied up, blindfolded and "force"-fed. Have a lover feed me to the point that it hurts and then insist on me eating some more until I beg for mercy. Have my feeder masturbate whilst they watch me eat (the idea being that they're so turned on that they can't stop themselves). Have my full belly massaged when I've eaten too much. .. and all the straight stuff that the "normal" people do! HAVE YOU EVER HAD ANY BAD EXPERIENCES WITH A FEEDER? Here we go. What you really mean is, Aren't all feeders just evil people who just want to fatten up someone until they get bored of it and then abandon their feedee in favour of someone else? My, my. The world must be a terrifying place for you if you judge everything by it's most negative extreme! I bet you think that every BSDM dom is a lurking Patrick Bateman [American Psycho Brett Easton-Ellis]. Anyway, try to employ a little objectivity for a few minutes and I shall attempt to reflect the good and the bad aspects feederism in a sensible light. Some Arguments Against Feederism I once heard someone say that feeding was different from all other fetish-type relationships in that there had to be a point at which the relationship ground to a halt for one of three main reasons: Feeder leaves because feedee can no longer gain any more weight. Feedee gets ill/dies and feeder moves on. Feedee terminates the relationship upon realising feeder's motives. Problems I Have With Such Arguments Assumes that feederism is the only basis for a feeder to seek a relationship and that continuing weight gain is the only thing that makes the feeder stay with the partner. Assumes that a feeder in a relationship will always seek to fatten their partner with no regard to the physical or emotional health of the feedee. Assumes that all feeder/feedee relationships always involve huge amounts of weight-gain. Such premises seem to be based around the notion that feeders are some sort of monsters; absorbed by nothing other than obtaining their sexual kicks, regardless of the cost! Now, I'm not saying that there aren't feeders in the world who completely disregard the physical and emotional health of their feedees for their weight-gain fix, but this behaviour does not arise because they are feeders. It arises because they're emotionally immature *******s who would manage to screw up their partner in most of their entanglements, regardless of whether feederism was involved or not. Of course, remaining so steadfastly true to its unobjective, sensationalist nature, the world at large tends to hear reports of such abuse and proceeds to label all feeders as fiends and all feedees as their helpless, emotionally-blackmailed victims... Ah, the sweet smell of stereotyping. LV Lady Veteran - ----------------------------------- "I rode a tank and held a general's rank when the blitzkrieg raged and the bodies stank..." - -Rolling Stones, Sympathy for the Devil - ------------------------------------------------ People who use anonymous remailers and ridicule fat people are doing the world a great service. - --------------------------------------------- "To Do Is To Be" Socrates "To Be Is To Do" Plato "Do Be Do Be Do" Sinatra - ------------------------------- -----BEGIN PGP SIGNATURE----- Version: PGP 8.0 - not licensed for commercial use: www.pgp.com iQA/AwUBQIEinekoPZAZfLgsEQL/MACePnRLZIvi4sTcKV+hwNEDC29Qtl8AoP4P 9XjRPdUv1PTjkC+zFel4MfQW =biVB -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- |
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Hash: SHA1 On Sun, 18 Apr 2004 22:16:38 GMT, "Chrono-Z" wrote: Whatever floats your boat. Some people **** goats too. Doesn't mean it isnt disgusting. You are right-this troll is disgusting. I might have a little bit of respect for their point of view if they had one and didn't continually hide and poke sticks. BTW I think they do **** goats. LV Lady Veteran - ----------------------------------- "I rode a tank and held a general's rank when the blitzkrieg raged and the bodies stank..." - -Rolling Stones, Sympathy for the Devil - ------------------------------------------------ People who hide behind anonymous remailers and ridicule fat people are cowardly idiots with no motive but malice. - --------------------------------------------- "To Do Is To Be" Socrates "To Be Is To Do" Plato "Do Be Do Be Do" Sinatra - ------------------------------- -----BEGIN PGP SIGNATURE----- Version: PGP 8.0 - not licensed for commercial use: www.pgp.com iQA/AwUBQIMBQukoPZAZfLgsEQI52wCeI2xzfLNNZBhTe3VgGVqkZ8 R2qUEAn0qZ +H0fY8cEcpXjDtPwIGbDZSma =akZ+ -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- |
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On 18 Apr 2004, Ms.Sanchez wrote:
Fat acceptance is another name for feederism. If anyone is confused about the true meaning of fat acceptance, here it is, unbridled gluttony no matter the consequences to yourself or society. Official Fat Acceptance FAQ It's too bad that SSFA has been turned into a feeder newsgroup. I posted an on topic pro fat-acceptance post and Lady Veteran flamed me. I used to be a member of NAAFA, but it too has become a haven for feeders. NAAFA's chairman runs Dimensions Magazine and its most popular board is the Weight Board. I dropped my membership when I was being pressured into feederism by their members. Go to http://members.aol.com/RareBird2/NJchatbash5.html to see what I mean. If you are not into feederism, NAAFA members will treat you like an ugly stepsister. |
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Hash: SHA1 On 19 Apr 2004 03:12:07 +0200, Bertha BBW wrote: On 18 Apr 2004, Ms.Sanchez wrote: Fat acceptance is another name for feederism. If anyone is confused about the true meaning of fat acceptance, here it is, unbridled gluttony no matter the consequences to yourself or society. Official Fat Acceptance FAQ It's too bad that SSFA has been turned into a feeder newsgroup. I posted an on topic pro fat-acceptance post and Lady Veteran flamed me. I used to be a member of NAAFA, but it too has become a haven for feeders. NAAFA's chairman runs Dimensions Magazine and its most popular board is the Weight Board. I dropped my membership when I was being pressured into feederism by their members. Go to http://members.aol.com/RareBird2/NJchatbash5.html to see what I mean. If you are not into feederism, NAAFA members will treat you like an ugly stepsister. Trolls are always treated as ugly stepsisters-even the male ones. Don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out. LV Lady Veteran - ----------------------------------- "I rode a tank and held a general's rank when the blitzkrieg raged and the bodies stank..." - -Rolling Stones, Sympathy for the Devil - ------------------------------------------------ People who hide behind anonymous remailers and ridicule fat people are cowardly idiots with no motive but malice. - --------------------------------------------- "To Do Is To Be" Socrates "To Be Is To Do" Plato "Do Be Do Be Do" Sinatra - ------------------------------- -----BEGIN PGP SIGNATURE----- Version: PGP 8.0 - not licensed for commercial use: www.pgp.com iQA/AwUBQIMv2+koPZAZfLgsEQIS1ACcDjGd0hdpU272+XIJd3Rfbb 5z7EoAnROx xdoXKqnxtg15AXfRy2gjlC/Z =2XkD -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- |
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