Why you should lose weight

Hey that isn't necessarily true! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and
there are men that think heavier women are attractive and sexy! I married
one and dated quite a few that thought I was sexy (and no, I didn't have to
sleep with them to get told that). My husband is quite attractive, so he
wasn't "desperate" when we met... He comes from a great family. He told me
that he prefers women with meat on their bones because he is so big and
strong he doesn't want to crush or hurt them. He is 6'3", handsome and very
muscular and does have a pot belly, but is still very attractive.


And because it renders a woman sexually unattractive.

Perple Glow writes:

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there are men
that think heavier women are attractive and sexy!

Of course, but such men are a small minority.

Additionally, since fat people tend to die young, I should think that
their loved ones would be unhappy about their obesity on that basis
alone.

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Actually, that is the main reason he is supporting me in my goal to lose
weight.... he is worried more about the health consequences then the
aesthetics.....

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Perple Glow writes:

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there are men
that think heavier women are attractive and sexy!

Of course, but such men are a small minority.

Additionally, since fat people tend to die young, I should think that
their loved ones would be unhappy about their obesity on that basis
alone.

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On Sat, 11 Oct 2003 21:32:08 +0200, Mxsmanic
wrote:

Full Mu_n writes:

Maybe it's not just about having an orgasm.

It certainly sounds that way from what they say in the article.

Mx said:

"Personally, I don't see how sex with someone you're not attracted to
could be that worthwhile. If they aren't attracted to these women,
and
they just want an orgasm, why not masturbate?"

Maybe it's not just about having an orgasm.

Lift well, Eat less, Walk fast, Live long.

On Sat, 11 Oct 2003 18:39:49 -0400, Patricia Heil
wrote:

Piffle. Real men only care about the weight because it shortens
lifespan and life quality.

Every NG has its Idiot.

You are ours.

Lift well, Eat less, Walk fast, Live long.

about the attitudes of some men towards fat women:

http://clevescene.com/issues/2003-10...l/1/index.html


Let me put it this way....lots of the teen unwed mothers I see in the city
are obese. Hell, they'll do anything the older guy will tell them. It's
nothing new. Older men with tiny ahem...well, you know what I mean...who
can't get laid by real women go for those girls with no self esteem.

Oh, by the way, I love ugly guys talking about fat or ugly women. Have these
men never looked at themselves in the mirror??? Most guys who say they
wouldn't go out with a woman because she was ugly are Coyote Ugly
themselves. Hypocrits.

Martha

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"Mxsmanic" wrote in message
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Julianne writes:

The whole thing sounds sick to me.... Men with poor self esteem going
after
women with poor self esteem and everyone reduces their chances of
rejection.

The flip side is that they all get sex, which they wouldn't be getting
otherwise. Apparently, that's important for a lot of people, fat or
thin.

I read things like this and it occurs to me that I am so very lucky to
have
my darling BF in my life. Wish he wasn't going to FL for a few days,
today.

Don't show him your USENET posts or he'll get a swelled head.

His head was already swollen when I met him There is nothing more sexy
than a very confident man who honestly believes he can have anything he
wants in life and chooses to be with me. Even when I am down, it occurs
to
me that he must see something that I don't. And when I am mad at him, it
never occurs to me that any minute I spent with him has been a waste. If
it
all ended tomorrow, we would be better people for having had each other
these past few years.

As long as he thinks of other things besides himself. My ex-fiance loved
himself and was so confident of himself, he didn't need anyone else and
there was no way I could ever live up to his idea of perfection. He would be
perfectly happy spending the rest of his days with a mirror.

Martha'

MH writes:

Older men with tiny ahem...well, you know what I mean...who
can't get laid by real women go for those girls with no
self esteem.

It's not surprising that these girls have no self-esteem, with people
like you around who don't even consider them real women.

Most guys who say they wouldn't go out with a woman
because she was ugly are Coyote Ugly themselves.

The girls can always say no.

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"Mxsmanic" wrote in message
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MH writes:

Older men with tiny ahem...well, you know what I mean...who
can't get laid by real women go for those girls with no
self esteem.

It's not surprising that these girls have no self-esteem, with people
like you around who don't even consider them real women.

I don't consider 14-year-olds women, do you? When an adult male goes for
someone who is not his own age in physical years, maturity and emotional
levels, and instead goes for a child, that's when I point out the
difference. They're not looking for a mature, intelligent woman, they're
looking for someone to do what they want, when they want.

Most guys who say they wouldn't go out with a woman
because she was ugly are Coyote Ugly themselves.

The girls can always say no.

They're children. Most likely they have no positive father figures in their
lives and they're looking for one. The predators know that.

Martha

MH writes:

I don't consider 14-year-olds women, do you?

Yes. They're past puberty.

When an adult male goes for someone who is not his
own age in physical years, maturity and emotional
levels, and instead goes for a child, that's when I
point out the difference.

I would, too. But children haven't reached puberty.

They're not looking for a mature, intelligent woman, they're
looking for someone to do what they want, when they want.

There are plenty of women of all ages like that. How old were you when
you met your ex-fiancé?

They're children. Most likely they have no positive
father figures in their lives and they're looking
for one.

Or they just like sex.

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